Less Screwing, More Screwing

Years of dating, internet dating, subsequently quitting internet dating, and being the female accepted into groups of males has given me the unique vantage point of having witnessed quite a bit of ridiculous, self and other sabotaging, and just plain stupid or crazy behavior. Individuals of both genders collectively work to create sets of expectations…

Postpartum Reflections

There is a moment before dawn when the layers of darkness lift from the sky like a gradual garage door opening and the outlines of the trees become clear against the gray.  On the shadows of our wall, I can begin to make out the shapes of the tall trees waving away the black night.…