Less Screwing, More Screwing

Years of dating, internet dating, subsequently quitting internet dating, and being the female accepted into groups of males has given me the unique vantage point of having witnessed quite a bit of ridiculous, self and other sabotaging, and just plain stupid or crazy behavior. Individuals of both genders collectively work to create sets of expectations…

Love in the Time of Pragmatism

Recently, after arriving home from visiting small town South Dakota, having stretched my five hour drive into a leisurely eight or nine hours, all I really wanted was to have a glass of whiskey, curl up with a blanket, and watch movies. Alone. Unfortunately, this desire required me to go to the liquor store to…

Building a Better American Male

During Sen. Ted Cruz’ 21-hour fili-fake-buster against … health insurance, I fell down the rabbit hole of a(nother) conversation about what a godawful mess men are today. Frankly, it is still tough to figure where exactly this one started. But somehow the news that Esquire magazine is launching a TV channel collided with news that…